Each particle can have an electromagneticinteraction with other particles.
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The gravitational interaction (between objects with mass) and the electromagneticinteraction between things with electric charges.
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According to the ultimate source of truthiness (wikipedia), the photon is the elementary particle responsible for the electromagneticinteraction.
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Does the pencil have any excess charge that would produce and electrostatic interaction with other objects or an electromagneticinteraction with the Earth's magnetic field?
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The theory of electromagneticinteractions is well developed, but nucleus-nucleus collisions are so complex that no fundamental physical theory currently describes them.